Reorder scripts so that the mesh_lan interface is accounted for.

Two other firewall upgrade scripts (mesh-babel and l3roamd) are
reordered as well. While there seems to be no hard dependency at the
moment, it makes sense to run the basic setup first, also to avoid
problems with future changes.

Closes: #2090
Fixes: ed094bc6 ("gluon-core: firewall: Allow custom gluon_wired interfaces (#2041)")
(cherry picked from commit de5ebfa4)

In addition this PR contains:
- split of gluon-respondd provider into multiple source files
- minor additional cleanups in gluon-mesh-babel respondd provider
  (untested, as the babel respondd provider already doesn't compile prior
  to these changes...)

Adjust for changed libbabelhelper API.

specify command 'dump' for now until babeld supports filtering

increase size of path by 1 to be able to fit the full path including trailing \0 byte into array

gluon-mesh-babel conigures babeld and thus the mesh. This mesh is only usable
with routes to the clients which are discovered by l3roamd.

log-file /dev/stderr is broken for babeld as it eats log messages for debug log.
This commit gets rid of the option. This allows -d N to be used as babeld command
line option.

gluon-core, gluon-mesh-babel: move lua functions that generate ll-addresses from a mac into gluon-core

gluon-mesh-babel: babel-respond: stop relying on mac addresses and instead obtain ll-address from nic

Rename to respondd.c / respondd.so, gluon.mk expects these names. This way
we can remove the install code. The installed filename is changed to
gluon-mesh-babel.so, bringing it in line with out common naming scheme.